Red rose
In the nineteenth-century flower dictionaries the rose meant love, or beauty. Charlotte de La Tour's French original of 1819 gave "beauty"; the English and American books that followed her mostly gave "love".
Meaning
La Tour's Le Langage des fleurs lists the rose simply as Beauté. The English version, revised by Frederic Shoberl, editor of the annual Forget Me Not, turned it into "Love", and Kate Greenaway's Language of Flowers (London, 1884) kept "Love". Henrietta Dumont's Floral Offering (Philadelphia, 1851) has it both ways: her chapter heads the red rose "Beauty and love", while her dictionary at the back of the same book says "Love". A darker shade meant something else. Sarah Josepha Hale's Flora's Interpreter (Boston, 1832) and Greenaway both give the deep red rose as "bashful shame". A red and a white rose sent together meant "sufferings of love" to La Tour and "unity" to Greenaway. None of this belongs to a living tradition with keepers of its own. The Royal Horticultural Society's librarians note that most people today would still understand red roses given to a lover, and that by the early twenty-first century the revived language of flowers was being used to choose wedding flowers. The rose is the first of the two flowers the Old Farmer's Almanac gives for June.
Origin and history
The language of flowers was a French fashion of the early nineteenth century. Brent Elliott, historian of the Royal Horticultural Society's Lindley Library, starts it with a small book published in Paris in 1819 under the name Charlotte de la Tour. It was not the first book to give flowers meanings, but it was the first given over to nothing else, and the one translated into other languages. Its author was later identified as Louise Cortambert, whose gravestone gives her dates as 1782 to 1875; Elliott accepts the historian Beverly Seaton's verdict that she was the probable author. The book ran through the seasons in short essays, one flower and one meaning to each, and offered about 330 meanings in all. An English translation followed in 1834. Its seventh edition (London, 1840) is "revised by the editor of Forget Me Not", the annual Frederic Shoberl edited. England already had a book of its own: Henry Phillips's Floral Emblems of 1825.
The dictionaries did not agree, and their authors said so. Hale, in Boston, admitted that her authorities "sometimes differ". Elliott, who answered the Lindley Library's telephone enquiries about flower meanings for years, compiled the books' meanings side by side and concluded that there was never a single consistent set.
The Turkish story and its doubters
La Tour told her readers that the language came from the harems of the East. Her preface imagines a sultana dropping a spray of lily of the valley for a young page, and a rose sent back to say that reason stands in the way; a Tulip with a black heart and flaming petals says her wishes are shared. Her dictionary's title page offers help to "write a note or compose a sélam".
Her evidence was a letter Lady Mary Wortley Montagu wrote in Turkey, from Pera, on 16 March 1718; her letters were published after her death, in 1763. Montagu sent a friend "a Turkish love-letter" in a little box: a purse of small things, among them a pearl, a clove, soap, coal, a rose and pepper, each standing for a line of verse that rhymed with its Turkish name. Soap said "I am sick with love"; pepper, "Send me an answer". The rose, gul, called up "May you be pleased, and your sorrows mine!" Another line in the same letter reads "You are an unblown rose!" "There is no colour, no flower, no weed, no fruit, herb, pebble, or feather, that has not a verse belonging to it," Montagu wrote.
Scholars now doubt that this was a language of flowers at all. Elliott points out that Montagu's code used objects of every kind, and that the objects had no meanings of their own: they were reminders of rhyming verses. The orientalist Joseph von Hammer-Purgstall, who had first visited Istanbul in 1799, published an article in 1809 attacking the exaggerations of Montagu's letter. His list of rhymes gives the rose two different verses, "My torments have reduced me to ashes" and "I weep; you, laugh". The English version of La Tour itself explains that a flower's message came from the word its name rhymed with, and cites von Hammer, but it still credits Montagu and La Motraie, "the companion of Charles XII", with making the language famous in Europe, and says a message bouquet is called in the East "a Salaam (salutation)". Phillips, in England, rejected the Turkish story outright. The French word sélam, used for such a bouquet, is according to Elliott a corruption of the Arabic greeting salaam, and he knows of no evidence that it was ever used in Turkey for the rhyming code. Cornell University Library's exhibition on the subject concludes that a European origin, in the romantic bouquets of France, is more likely.
Red and white together
The French poet Bonnefons, La Tour writes, sent the woman he loved two roses, a white one for his pallor and a bright red one for the fire in his heart. So a red and a white rose together meant "sufferings of love", or "fire of the heart", in her dictionary. Greenaway, sixty years later, made the pair mean "unity". Richard Folkard's Plant Lore, Legends, and Lyrics (1884) records that in antiquity brides and bridegrooms were crowned with chaplets of red and white roses. The white rose has its own page.
The rose before the dictionaries
Elizabeth Haig's study of flowers in religious painting (1913) describes the rose among the Romans as a sign of victory and of triumphant love, and as the flower of Venus. The Church at first made it the flower of martyrdom, then allowed it to remain a symbol of love, of divine love. Dumont repeats the classical story of its colour: Venus, running to help Adonis, tore her foot on a thorn, and her blood turned a white rose red.
See also
June birth flowers: rose and honeysuckle, White rose, Pink rose, Yellow rose, Tulip, Lily.
Sources
- Le Langage des fleurs (Charlotte de La Tour, 13th edition), Charlotte de La Tour, Le Langage des fleurs, treizième édition augmentée (Paris: Garnier frères, [1856]); first published 1819, Cornell University Library, via the Internet Archive, Dictionnaire, “Beauté”; “Feu du cœur”; “Une rose blanche et une rose rouge”; préface
- Forget Me Not for 1836 (ed. Frederic Shoberl), Forget Me Not; a Christmas, New Year's, and Birthday Present, for MDCCCXXXVI, edited by Frederic Shoberl (London: Ackermann, 1836), Internet Archive, title page
- The Language of Flowers: The Floral Offering, by Henrietta Dumont, 1851, H. C. Peck & Theo. Bliss, Philadelphia (Project Gutenberg edition), Red Rose chapter; Dictionary of Flowers
- Flora's Interpreter (Sarah Josepha Hale, 1832), Sarah Josepha Hale, Flora's Interpreter, or the American Book of Flowers and Sentiments (Boston: Marsh, Capen and Lyon, 1832), Boston Public Library, via the Internet Archive, Introduction; Rose, deep red
- Language of Flowers, illustrated by Kate Greenaway, 1884, George Routledge and Sons (Project Gutenberg edition), Rose; Rose, Deep Red; Rose, White and Red together
- Letters of Lady Mary Wortley Montagu (1790 edition), Letters of the Right Honourable Lady M——y W——y M——e, written during her travels in Europe, Asia and Africa, new edition (London: Thomas Martin, 1790); first published 1763, Project Gutenberg, Letter XL, Pera, 16 March
- The Victorian Language of Flowers (Brent Elliott, 2013), Brent Elliott, "The Victorian language of flowers", Occasional Papers from the RHS Lindley Library 10: 3–94 (2013), Royal Horticultural Society, via the Internet Archive, pp. 4–5, 8, 10–12
- Le Langage des Fleurs, Charlotte de La Tour (Written in Petals), Written in Petals: The Language of Flowers in Victorian Europe, online exhibition, Cornell University Library
- The language of flowers: a lover’s code (RHS Libraries), Royal Horticultural Society
- Plant Lore, Legends, and Lyrics (Richard Folkard, 1884), Richard Folkard, Plant Lore, Legends, and Lyrics (London: Sampson Low, 1884), Project Gutenberg, Rose
- The Floral Symbolism of the Great Masters (Elizabeth Haig, 1913), Elizabeth Haig, The Floral Symbolism of the Great Masters (London: Kegan Paul, Trench, Trübner, 1913), Project Gutenberg, The Rose
- Birth Flowers by Month: Discover Your Monthly Flower & Meaning, Catherine Boeckmann, updated 17 September 2026, The Old Farmer’s Almanac, June
- The Language of Flowers, with Illustrative Poetry, by Frederic Shoberl, seventh edition, 1840, Saunders & Otley, London (Internet Archive, Cornell University Library copy), title page; Introduction pp. 12–15; p. 106; Dictionary, “Love”
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